GoCheckMyParents helps you understand changes in an aging parent’s safety, independence, daily routines, and support needs. Whether something happened today or you are planning ahead, our tools, cost resources, Medicare provider information, and plain-language guides help you explore options and prepare for the conversations ahead.
Something happened today? Start with urgent guidance →
Know More. Worry Less.
Choose the situation closest to what your family is facing. You can start with one concern and explore more as your questions change.
A fall, a hospital visit, sudden confusion, or a rapid change.
Get urgent guidance →Concerns about memory, medications, mobility, routines, safety, isolation, or growing support needs.
Start the free assessment →Research nursing homes, home health agencies, hospitals, hospice providers, and what to ask on a tour.
Compare care providers →Review published cost information, estimate the monthly gap, and explore how families pay.
Understand care costs →Prepare for conversations with a parent, a sibling, a doctor, or a professional.
Browse family guides →Start with what your family has noticed, explore the tools and information that fit, and use what you learn to prepare for the next conversation.
Organize what you have noticed about safety, memory, routines, mobility, medications, and the support already in place.
Use provider records, cost resources, checklists, and guides based on the questions your family is actually facing.
Turn what you learn into questions for your parent, your family, and the professionals you speak with.
What care costs, nationally: in-home care runs a median of $35 an hour, assisted living $6,200 a month, and a semi-private nursing home room $9,581 a month. Source: CareScout Cost of Care Survey 2025, national medians; local prices vary. See your state →
Answer 13 questions about changes in your parent’s safety, routines, memory, mobility, and current support. You get an educational summary that organizes what you noticed, explains options worth researching, and helps you prepare questions.
About three minutes · No account or email required
Educational only. The assessment does not diagnose a condition, evaluate your parent, determine whether your parent can safely live alone, or select the appropriate care setting.
Choose the category closest to the decision your family is working through.
Review public provider records, understand what the measures mean, and prepare better questions before you call.
Review published care-cost information and compare it against the resources your family actually has.
Organize visits, compare what you saw, and get ready for the family conversations.
Plain-language guidance about safety, care options, provider research, costs, and difficult conversations.
The signs that matter most, and what to do about each one.
Read guide →UrgentWho to call, what to watch for, and what usually comes next.
Read guide →CostsWhat each actually costs, and when one becomes the better value.
Read guide →ProvidersWhat a star rating includes, and the findings it leaves out.
Read guide →ConversationsOpening lines that work, and the ones that end the conversation.
Read guide →PayingMedicare, Medicaid, benefits, insurance, and home equity.
Read guide →GoCheckMyParents does not make the decision for your family. We help you understand the information surrounding that decision.
GoCheckMyParents is an independent educational resource and does not provide medical, legal, insurance, benefits, or financial advice.
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Not sure where to begin? Start with the assessment. Already researching a specific decision? Explore the tools or the guides.
Know More. Worry Less.